Stop Swiping,
Start Meeting

Ditch the apps Des Moines
Reserve your spot now

  • Meet in real life. Build real chemistry, not endless chats

  • Preserve your privacy. No public profiles (you’re welcome)

  • Get curated matches. You deserve more than an algorithm

Say goodbye to swiping and hello to meaningful relationships. Go Mingle helps professionals find connections without the madness and dating app ick.

Go Mingle is redefining dating for professionals like you

Join now to secure your spot and be among the first to experience a better way to date.

Meet People,
Not Profiles

You’ve built a life you love—now meet someone who makes it even better.

Divorced? So what. You’ve put in the work and still deserve to find love. You’re wiser, more confident, and know what you want.

Go Mingle helps smart, successful professionals find their next great match and start their best chapter yet!

Apply access the exclusive member experiences

Membership allows you to be included as a match selection after approval. Members can upgrade to a premium VIP service . Select from custom one-on-one matchmaking or small group mixers and dinners with fellow foodies.

Go Mingle is geared for professionals 30-55 who are ready for real connections in a more sophisticated setting.

  • Craft Date - Personalized Match

    Personal Match Craft Date

    ♥︎ Get Tailored Matches
    Hand-selected Dates: Expert matchmakers select individuals based on your unique qualities.
    Confidential Service: Your profile stays private, offering a secure and exclusive experience.

    ♥︎ Save Time Searching
    Hassle-Free Matching: We handle the search focusing your time only on meeting pre-screened matches suited to your goals.

  • Mingle & Music Dates

    Mingle & Music Meetup

    ♥︎ Enjoy a Casual and Fun Atmosphere
    Low-pressure environment: Enjoy live music, craft cocktails, and good company.
    Face-to-face interactions: Build chemistry in real life with no filters, long chats, or ghosting involved.

    ♥︎ Mingle with a Curated Guest List
    Handpicked singles: Each event is thoughtfully planned with a group of high-quality, like-minded singles.

  • Group Dinner Date

    Elevated Dinner Party

    ♥︎ Enjoy a fine-dining dinner experience
    Join a select group in an intimate setting: Engage in conversations and build authentic chemistry over dinner.
    Includes refined cuisine and a signature drink: Courses and seating arranged to provide the opportunity to get to know a small group of hand-selected singles.

    ♥︎ Dress your best and find romance: Slip into something nice and enjoy an upscale evening with all the perfect ingredients for romance

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If you love using dating apps, this is not the service for you

I love being on dating apps for all my coworkers and creepsters to see my profile
— Said NO ONE, Like EVER
I prefer endless chats and making more penpals over building chemistry in real life.
— All the fake profiles
Swiping is my favorite way to spend free time. Algorithms really know my type.
— Nooooooobody

Frequently Asked Questions

  • We believe there is magic in meeting and letting you get to know each other in the moment. We’ll provide general descriptions and interests along with a first name.

  • Members must pass an identification verification and background screening. Your last name and contact info is never shared without your permission. We encourage you to use caution and care as we can not guarantee client behavior. Please report any inappropriate behavior or concerns immediately by contacting help@gomingle.io.

  • Yes, your dating profile and picture will never be shared unless we get your consent for a private event. We keep personal matchmaking service 100% confidential so your dating life stays private.

  • We aim for Craft Dates to occur within 3 to 4 weeks. Preferences and availability of singles within your targeted match can impact the time it takes to locate your ideal match. We focus on quality over quantity.

Private dating service for professionals

How it works

1. Enroll in a Go Mingle membership. This makes you eligible for matching following a background check and identity validation. Your safety is a priority.

2. Complete your private profile. Matchmakers leverage membership dating pools to curate groups for events and personal matchmaker searches.

3. Choose a premium upgrade for concierge services. We’ll start a personal search and curate events based on your preferences.

Tired of dating apps?
We are too.


Go Mingle is built to be the anti-dating app experience.

Now you can delete the apps, without deleting your search.

Don’t leave love to algorithms.

Go Mingle combines
human connection + technology + a dash of matchmaker magic.